By I'm Coming | January 2025
Meeting new people in person can be an exciting experience, whether you're making new friends, exploring hobbies, or looking for romantic connections. However, safety should always be your top priority. According to a study by Statista, 56% of internet users in the U.S. are concerned about privacy and personal data security when using online services, and those concerns extend to in-person meetings. While the digital world allows us to connect easily, it's important to approach face-to-face meetups with caution. Here's how to ensure both you and your new acquaintance feel safe and secure.
Public places provide a level of safety that private or secluded areas simply can't match. Restaurants, cafes, parks, or busy coffee shops are perfect for a first meeting. According to a survey by Tinder, nearly 60% of people agree that public settings help them feel safer when meeting someone new. You can enjoy a relaxed atmosphere while having plenty of other people around for support if needed.
Let a trusted friend or family member know where you'll be, who you're meeting, and when you'll return. Research shows that 50% of people feel more secure meeting others when they've informed someone else about their plans. It's an easy step that gives you an extra layer of peace of mind. Some apps even have a "share location" feature, so your contact can track your whereabouts in real time if needed.
A charged phone is an essential safety tool. It's your communication lifeline in case of an emergency. In fact, 72% of people report feeling more confident about meeting new people when they know they can quickly contact someone if they feel uncomfortable. Ensure your phone is fully charged before heading out, and keep it within easy reach during the meetup.
Be upfront about your comfort level, whether it's about personal space, conversation topics, or how long you want the meeting to last. Setting boundaries is crucial for ensuring that both parties feel respected and heard. Studies show that people who communicate their boundaries early in interactions tend to feel more comfortable and have more positive experiences.
Your intuition is often your best guide. If something doesn't feel right, trust that gut feeling and make a graceful exit. The "I'm Coming" community fosters a safe environment where you should never feel pressured into meeting anyone who makes you uncomfortable. Studies from the National Center for Victims of Crime show that listening to your instincts can help prevent dangerous situations.
By following these simple tips, you can ensure that your in-person meetings are enjoyable and, most importantly, safe.